The perfect dress: Samantha Sung at KJs Laundry

Cycling around Marylebone, I stopped in Marylebone Lane, home to a clump of lovely shops. At number 108, Biggles, the sausage king, provide meat only sausages (suitable for gluten free diets) in a great variety of flavours. Less meaty but still delicious is Paul Rothe &Sons at number 35, where you can buy a sandwich, a cup of tea or a jar of pickle to bring home.

In truth, my detour to this lovely street was motivated by the memory of Tracy Neuls' intriguing shoe shop - more on this later. The promise of a sale "forced" me into KJs Laundry - one of Vogue's Britain best boutiques 2010 whose sales assistants have the right mix of friendliness, honesty and cool.

Nothing in the sale really worked for me, but, amidst jackets from Fillipa K (Jackie stretch cotton jacket at £135 down from £195) or dresses fromYMC (£130 down from £175 for the tulip dress), I could not resist inspecting the amazing S Sung dresses that I had already drooled over last year and which were on display in the window.  Samantha Sung is an American Korean designer, based in Honolulu - how cool is that! The prints that she designs combine East and West in techniques (batik, tie-die...) and colours. Mostly, her Audrey dress is perfect. Its feminine cut is flattering, the V neck elongates the figure whilst the 3/4 sleeves hide the less attractive part of the arm. The model I tried last year did not work on me,  but this time... it suited me and felt just right. I suspect the addition of some stretchy material in the fabric explains the change in fit or could I have lost a pound in the right place? Considering my current chocolate consumption, I doubt it! In any event, it looked really good, even if I say so myself.

I have to come to the painful bit now. The Audrey dress costs £395...
To know more about Samantha Sung: http://www.samanthasung.com/index.html

To know more about KJ's Laundry: http://www.kjslaundry.com/

Moonwalk!

Congratulations to all Moonwalkers who raised awareness and money against breast cancer last night in London! I came across the exhausted and colorful cortege this morning as I took my Sunday run in Hyde Park. I was in awe of their dedication and display of solidarity whilst I panted pathetically around the Serpentine.  I had forgotten to take a camera and document the event so here is an internet sourced picture.

For more information on the Playtex Moonwalk: http://www.walkthewalk.org/Challenges/ThePlaytexMoonWalk

Chocolate!!! Louise Thomas.

In a departure from the blog's theme of fashion for women over 40, this post is about chocolate and more specifically about Louise Thomas, a chocolate consultant whom I very much enjoyed meeting and interviewing recently at coffee heaven, Kaffeine where the fashionable "flat white" is frothed to perfection. I can safely say that I don't know many women over 40 who do not like chocolate. I know a few but I hope that the majority of this blog's readers will enjoy the opportunity of learning more about one of life's great pleasures and the consultant who ambitions to bring chocolate appreciation to a higher level.

British born Louise Thomas is far from 40 but we forgive her!  Despite her youth, she exudes determination and expertise. Her background is varied and intriguing. She started with photography at the tender age of 16 in New York where her family lived, freelancing for Tatoo magazines and charity OCD Action . Back in the UK, a part-time job as a commis chef to support her photography studies, became a full time commitment to good food with photography taking a back seat. Faced with the daunting immensity of the field of cooking, she got "scared of tomatoes" and she decided to narrow down the discipline to baking - fewer ingredients! One ingredient in particular captured her imagination,  Valrhona chocolate, widely used in good restaurants, and a whole new world opened. Working for the likes of  Pied a Terre, The Wolseley, or Tom Aikens ,  she honed her skill as a pastry chef.  Piqued and energised by the challenge offered by a chef who did not like her arguing with him on what chocolate to use to cover lollipops, she launched her own business after a stint at Artisan du Chocolat and Melt.

Why become a chocolate consultant?
I became frustrated because there are places where you could go and learn about chocolate but only if you already know about chocolate and it wasn't easy to understand. I wanted somewhere where people could come and learn about chocolate.

What does a chocolate consultant do?
Primarily I do tastings and talks, how to taste chocolate and I can do more advanced tastings too. Then I do pairings, chocolate with tea, coffee, cocktails, etc. for corporate clients - corporate evenings, networking events and I offer it to places like Soho house, Southbank Centre for instance. And then I do consultancy for retail and hospitality. With retail, it is finding the chocolate product that they can sell in their shops. I worked with with Tsuru , the Japanese restaurant and they wanted a Japanese inspired chocolate. So I pointed them to William Curley who has a Japanese wife and understands Japanese ingredients such as wasabi. Then I work in the hospitality industry with chefs to develop chocolate recipes, to find the right chocolate for the right recipe and to complement the flavours of the dish. It is probably my favourite thing! And also, I do consultancy within the chocolate industry. People who are working on their chocolate bars will send them to me at different stages of the development so I can critique and give them my feedback on how I think they should improve it. It's really exciting to see the product evolve.


How to choose chocolate - in particular, how to choose "ethical" chocolate?
One rule about chocolate, it has to have no vegetable fat, only cocoa butter and real vanilla, no vanillin or other chemicals.
There are a lot of issues with Fairtrade or Rainforest Alliance and organic - it is a step in the right direction but it's not enough. There is so much corruption within the chocolate industry, even within the sugar industry. The only people that I believe in are  people who I can see are sourcing really close to their suppliers.Once the beans travel to the cooperative, it is very hard to trace them back to the farm. So, because of that, it is very hard to trace who is working on the farm. They can only trust when the farmer says: "I am not employing children". So it is just learning about the brands - just send them an email and most companies will be proud of how they are sourcing their beans and they'll talk about it a lot on their website. Louise mentions The Grenada Chocolate Company ,  Askinosie  who have a picture of the farmer on the bar,

or Amano who regularly travels to the plantations (I tasted the Madagascar single origin bar and LOVED it).

Other chocolatiers that Louise rates highly are the Italian Amadei and The Grenada chocolate company The Grenada chocolate company/

I would like to plug a new British chocolatier, recommended by Louise, who has just launched his product at The Real Food show in London last weekend: Red Star chocolate by Duffy Sheardown producing single origin bars. As one of the few "bean to bar" producer, with impeccable ethical credentials, I think that they deserve our support.

Is chocolate good for you?
Chocolate was imported mostly by the monks who used it for medicinal properties and health benefits. Earlier this morning, I was looking at a study that says that consuming cocoa butter may protect the brain from damage during strokes. Then I suppose in terms of anti-aging properties, it is full of antioxydants, cacao has the highest content of flavonoids

Next steps:
Louise's plans for the future include redeveloping her website to make it the best chocolate encyclopedia available as well as an online shop to source her favourite artisan chocolate. Further down the line, she would like to buy a cocoa plantation, develop it in a "fair" way and make her own chocolate - pretty impressive plans for a woman under 30!
In the meantime, get in touch with Louise who can organise corporate or private tastings - events are bespoke so ask her for prices.

To learn more about Louise Thomas, check-out her website for contact details (the website is in development and will launch in the Autumn): The chocolate consultant/

How not to look old

The book by the perfectly named Charla Krupp was recommended to my friend S. by her best friend who swears by it.

Appearing regularly on Oprah, Charla Krupp has taken the US by storm since publication in March 2008. She has since tackled another taboo with How Never To Look Fat Again. Should we expect How Not To Look Poor soon to complete the series? Not one for "ageing gracefully" - ie accepting lines and sagging skin as a proud sign of experience, her stance on ageing is unapologetic: "ageing sucks"! She deals with "age management" and promotes the notion that appearance is what counts, not the feminist fight against age discrimination nor the notion that with age comes the confidence to truly be who we are.

In any event, she dispenses her tips with unbeatable energy and a confident prescriptive tone. I have not yet read the book but her tips seem very practical and sensible and she is fun to listen to. I would take her advice as foundation to build on: how to avoid certain fashion or beauty pitfalls but without forgetting one's personality and individuality.
He rather manic video on YouTube is quite entertaining.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mRfXsiZhcbY

Coming from a very different perspective, Anne Kreamer decided to let her hair go grey and enjoyed the consequences: a more authentic self-image, an affirmation of the woman she had become. I think she might also have found a new, much hipper hairdresser along the way!

Photo by Chris Fanning

Read the article in More magazine on Anne Kreamer's experience:
http://www.more.com/2019/3120-back-to-my-roots-a

Eloise Grey - summer collection

I am very happy to report Eloise Grey's summer collection, following up on an earlier article published on the blog on her winter coats - January article on ethical tweeds  

Eloise Grey's mostly works with tweed, ethical and organic tweed from the Isle of Mull weavers, Ardalanish. Naturally, anything to do with sheep wool was bound to appeal to the mutton in me and Eloise Grey's tweed coats and jackets are truly irresistible. For her summer collection, launched last night at the The Hepsibah Gallery in London, Eloise Grey has broadened her choice of fabric to include hemp from Romania, Belgian linen and hand loom cotton from India without sacrificing her exacting quality standards. Presented in a lovely corner of London, Brackenbury village, the collection exudes the timeless charm of the English countryside, made relevant for today through sharp tailoring and smart details. The gallery featuring Hepsibah's colourful paintings and extraordinary hats provides the perfect setup for the collection.

The collection is on show until Wednesday 12/05 in London.
The piece de resistance of the show is the Vita Gardening Coat, a 1930s inspired piece in natural hemp colour, beautifully finished and detailed - bound seams, pretty blue piping, hand made ceramic button and clever pockets, including a sneaky one at the back. It feels and wears beautifully and sells for £490.

Also for the summer, the Delafield blouse comes in off-white unbleached linen and retails for £155 and in hand-block printed cotton at £145.

 The Mansfield blouse comes in hand woven and hand-block printed cotton at £155 or in off-white linen at £165. The blouse ties at the front with a ruched effect.

The Vita breeches in Belgian linen (£180) and a simple linen skirt (£140) complement the collection.

The exhibition also comprises amazing tweed slip-on shoes that are hand made by CarreDucker and can be made to order for £275.

The aptly named Aeneas MacKay who runs Ardalanish in the Isle of Mull attended the launch of the new collection and showed the fascinating variety of tweed produced by the Isle of Mull Weavers, all in natural sheep colour. He was particularly proud of the tweed made from their local dark Hebridean sheep's with a stripe of rust colour produced using local lichen.Working with Eloise Grey since her beginnings, he also produced the organic tweed used by Jigsaw with great success. The two winter coats shown in the gallery with the summer collection display new tweeds from Ardalanish to great effect. The Elisabeth I has a ruched collar and the Elisabeth II a straight collar - both retail around £899 - investment pieces to wear with pleasure and style for years. The coats will be available for sale at Few and Far, Priscilla Carluccio's eclectic shop in London's Brompton road.

Visit The Hepsibah Gallery, 112 Brackenbury road, London W6 0B: 10:00am to 5:00pm (except Sunday)

Visit Few and Far's website: http://www.fewandfar.net/ and shop at 242 Brompton road, London SW3 2BB

To learn more about Eloise Grey and order from her website:  http://www.eloisegrey.com/
To learn more about Ardalanish, Isle of Mull Weavers: http://www.ardalanish.com/

I have no connection with the designers featured on the blog, other than the fact that I like what they create!

J & M Davidson mid-season sale

John and Monique Davidson are known for their beautiful leather accessories and bags.  Through the years, they have also created beautiful knitwear in the same classic fashion aesthetics - a fusion of English flair and French chic. I was sorry to see the shop leave from Ledbury road where individual boutiques seem to be increasingly replaced by high street brands, but they have now moved to hipper, cosmopolitan Golborne road. Each season, they come up with a small line of clothing which is now on a 25% sale in the shop.

 

They started with elegant handcrafted leather belts.

Small dagger belt, £109

 Then they expanded into handbags, classic designs in luxurious leather .

Andrew bag, £309

Their knitwear that exudes the same effortless chic.

 Milano Jacket, £287

Whilst leather goods and knitwear are NOT in the sale, the clothing collection is reduced by 25% IN THE SHOP only. The small collection features crisp broderie anglaise, pretty gingham and a lovely original print for dresses, tops and skirts. The tailoring is not particularly forgiving and favours slim rather than curvaceous figures, but the clothes will look great on the right 40+ woman.

 Flower dress, from £499 to £374.

 Angel dress, reduced from £450 to £338, also available in white.

Angel top, from £291 to £218 with Cricket trousers, from £353 to £265.

Pocket Grosgrain skirt, from £322 to £242. Also available in "flower" print (£347).

As style and exclusivity come at a price, the mid-season Summer sale is a good opportunity to visit the light and airy shop.

The shop is located at 97 Golborne road, W10 5NL - tel: 0208 969 22 44
For more information on J&M Davidson, their bags, accessories and knitwear:  http://www.jandmdavidson.com/

Too cute for a mutton?

As a student then a young working woman, my style signature was my vast collection of earrings - generally large, dangling, colourful and often quirky. I would store my collection on a wooden ladder display and pick those that suited my mood in the morning. Thankfully, I worked in media where those signs of individuality could be accepted. Still, I now realise that wearing tin teapots, dangling from my ears was not always wise and probably didn't project the ideal executive image.

When I longed for sunshine and the beach, I could wear a bit of summer on my ears.

One pair of earrings offered me a drastic view of corporate life's ups and downs and another offered the comfort of oriental philosophies.

For special occasions, such as May Day, I would celebrate with a bunch of Lily of the valley - traditionally offered in France on May 1st, my brother's birthday.

I have not worn any of those earrings for years for fear of falling in the "mutton dressed as lamb" trap but I still treasure them.

However, there is hope for those of us who want a bit of fun on their ears. Some jewelry designers create pieces that are whimsical and charming but discrete enough to be worn without projecting the wrong image.

Louise Buchan's jewelry is possibly a bit too "cute" but I still like it - moving from teapot to cup and saucer seems quite grownup!

Check out her website for more details:
http://www.louisebuchan.com/category/jewellery

Sophie Harley creates lovely pieces in silver and gold, from the original "Loveknot" created for the Bond film and worn by Eva Green in Quantum of Solace to charm bracelets, rings, necklaces and ... earrings.  

Please visit her website for more information: http://www.sophieharley.com/